Black doctor dating
I work in family medicine, pull around 140k a year (have a good bit of debt from medical school though). Well educated, have a great job, a busy life professionally and socially and would overall consider myself to be a dateable person.During my younger years, I didn't form any serious relationships primarily because I wanted to focus on medical school and my future career.
I have given online dating a shot however a lot of guys don't really want a serious relationship.This means the odds of you finding one are relatively low. That girl who had a baby at the age of 19 and wasnt in a trailer park, that drives home my point pretty well."Kinda stopped reading after that, so apologies if he actually started making sense again.Plus, if you prejudge them by high standards - he's just not tall enough, or a bit balding - then you put him off the list, and nobody's there to take the slack. " "go grrl" comments appear, ask yourself who's going to pay the price for the bad advice. The author raises some good points, then just goes off the deep end."You must have all your kids by the age of 25! Really wish he would have said something intelligent, like don't limit yourself to a relationship when you are 35 and successful.The main problem came about was the fact that our medical school class was majority female.When I initially pictured it in my head I thought by the time I graduated I'd end up just settling down with one of the guys from my medical school. A small minority of the guys in our class ended up settling down while the majority of them decided to take their new found doctor status as a way to get laid (I am not blaming them just saying what happened).Throughout most of medical school I ended up forming casual relationships nothing really with a future.
And majority of my peers did the same thing as well.
A lot of the women that were in my class also have had a hard time finding guys as well.
Some of my friends have the notion that they would only stick with a guy that makes a good bit more than them.
"That's really nice, good for her", and that's it; none of it makes you more attractive as a potential partner.
Not to generalize, but you're trying to attract a man with things that women are attracted to; rarely will a man become more attracted to a woman because of how well off that she is.
And from those guys they ted to stick exclusively with younger women.